One of the most powerful and thought-provoking blogs I’ve read in a long time deserves some recognition. Sparklyandslimming, one of my favorite bloggers, talked about how comfortable and easy it is to remain overweight. I don’t think I ever thought about it that way while being overweight, or to put it correctly, being obese, but she’s right. There is something comforting about accepting the situation and settling, saying that’s just who I am. Deciding to change takes guts, will, and tons of work. You must be willing to learn new things about yourself, some of which will be disappointing to realize. There will be some attitudes, possessions, habits, perceptions, etc. about yourself that must change as you embark upon weight loss. There will be things that you will have to eradicate because it will not fit with the better lifestyle you’ve made and continue to seek for yourself. Lastly, a few things you’ll just have to accept, yet find
ways to get around, over, under, or through to succeed. As Samantha points out, these are just the emotional barriers between you and your rainbow.
There are physical obstacles as well. The most obvious being exercise. The larger I was, the harder it was to move. Jumping jacks today are nothing like they were a few years ago. I’m not even sure I was jumping when I started. I couldn’t bend well, push-ups were out, heck, I avoided anything that made me get on the ground because it took too much to get back up. I didn’t want weights either because let’s face it, I didn’t want to carry more weight than the 345 pounds I had. It was certainly easier doing nothing than getting up to walk, do low intensity aerobics, or light weight lifting. Sitting on my couch was much more comfortable than the mat or even my exercise bike. Comfort, acceptance, and ease… aren’t those what we strive for in life? For some areas of life, I’d say yes but when it comes to my health, I’ve realized the answer is no.
The truth is, it might be easier to be fat but it’s not comfortable and the levels of acceptance, self-acceptance or otherwise, isn’t always there. It is not easy to shop for clothes or to ignore the glances or even occasionally to walk, which gives new meaning to having the weight of the world on your shoulders (feet, knees, back, etc.). Just because
something is easy doesn’t mean it’s the right thing. Easy just isn’t everything. Challenge does have its rewards. I remember when I got my Master of Business Administration degree. I was asked on a few occasions if it was hard. Hard wasn’t something I really could equate with obtaining my diploma. Was it challenging, time-consuming, did I enjoy it, did it take a lot of work, would I benefit from it and was it worth it? To those questions, I answer with a resounding yes. However, if you ask was it hard or easy, I really can’t say. The best I can say is that it was doable, I didn’t coast through, I had a few struggles, but at the end of the tunnel, I got what I came for and I’m better for it.
Samantha is right, as there is “security in fatness.” Nevertheless, as she also pointed out, there is so much more in the world to see once out of the comfort zone. We deserve to give ourselves the best, thus settling should not be an option. Moreover, there is so much to life once we challenge ourselves to be better, do better and not be afraid. I didn’t take the same path as Samantha, and likely, you won’t either, but, I did have a breakthrough, and for that, I am thankful every day. I do encourage everyone to begin their journey and know that the road will not be easy but it will be worth it.



















